Independently owned · United Kingdom · Since 2009

Behind every Cafe Dating site.

We're the company behind a small network of UK dating sites — each built for a different way of meeting people, all held to the same standard for safety, moderation and genuine members.

Cafe Dating — Genuine, Quality Experience

Real people

Genuine members, not stock profiles.

Every Cafe Dating site is built around real people meeting each other — the photography across our sites reflects that.

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Placeholder photography for now — low-res stand-ins, swap for licensed or real member photography before launch.

The network

Every site we run, in one place.

Each site below is independently branded for its own community, but sits behind the same company, the same moderation standards, and the same team.

Café Dating sites

UK

The Love Finder Cafe

Free UK dating for love, romance and genuine friendship.

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Australia

Love Finder Australia

Romance and friendship dating for Australia.

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USA

Love Finder USA

Romance and friendship dating for the United States.

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Español

Love Finder Español

Romance and friendship dating for Spanish speakers.

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UK · 55+

Wise Owl Dating

Dating built for those aged 55 and over.

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Niche

Vegan Dating Plus

Dating for vegans and vegetarians who don't want to compromise on their values.

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Casual dating (18+, possible adult content)

UK · 18+

Big Women Lovers

Casual dating and contact finding, UK.

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UK · 18+

The Adult Cafe

Casual and adult contact dating for UK members.

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UK · 18+

Naughty Over Fifty

Casual dating and contact finding for the over-50s.

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More sites are being added to this network — check back soon.

Trust & safety

Every site we run is held to the same standard.

Safety isn't bolted on after the fact — it's built into how every Cafe Dating site works, from sign-up to your first message.

Verified identity

Optional ID and live video checks confirm real members, without you ever having to expose personal documents publicly.

Privacy by default

Your real name and exact location are never shown. You choose what's shared, and with whom.

Reputation you can see

A member rating system helps you judge who's trustworthy before you engage.

Moderated around the clock

Photos, video and messages are screened by AI and real moderators before they reach you.

Scam pattern alerts

We flag common tactics, like being pushed off-platform to WhatsApp, before they become a problem.

Secure by design

Hosted on PCI-compliant, SSL-encrypted infrastructure, so your details and payments stay protected.

Real human support

A support team is reachable when you actually need them — not just a chatbot.

Industry aligned

We follow safety standards shaped by the Online Dating & Discovery Association.

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Our story

Why Cafe Dating exists.

Cafe Dating is an independently owned company, established in 2009.

2009

Cafe Dating is founded by Swinn — then 45, single, and unable to find a dating site that felt genuine or good value. He set out to build one.

Today

We're UK based and offer a small network of quality dating sites and apps to mostly English-, and some Spanish-, speaking countries. We work in partnership with a specialist technology provider who handles the backend, database and customer transactions securely, so your registration and payment details stay safe.

Giving back

We support Children with Leukaemia.

For more than 22 years, Children with Leukaemia has funded research, supported families, and campaigned on behalf of children affected by leukaemia — entirely through public and business donations, with no government funding.

Every unique click on our new-site banner adverts contributes to our donation. It costs you nothing to help.

We also support the Macular Society.

The Macular Society is the UK's specialist charity for people affected by macular disease, the leading cause of sight loss in the country, supporting nearly 1.5 million people through research funding, advice and community support.

Find out more or get involved at macularsociety.org.

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